I think that there’s not a certain amount of time for someone to go through for them to be able to get over someone dying. It all depends on how close they were to the other person. For me it was pretty hard when my little brother passed. I was so close to him that I couldn’t believe that he was gone. I was so sure that he would make it that I didn’t want to realize that he was really gone. He was so much like me. Everything I liked, he liked. Everywhere I went, he went. Even though he was just a little kid we were like best friends. It took me a while to be able to slowly start going back to the person I was before. Still to this day I don’t think I am the same, and I don’t think that I will be who I use to be. I think that even after things like this happen no one can go back to being the same. It is possible but it takes a long time and strength.

Oscar